Forcing others to wear clothes because we cannot control our own lust,
is abuse of others.
First Time in Spain.
Summer 2002
My first time was last summer at
Tusales Beach, a clothing optional beach at Alicante (Spain) where my
parents have an apartment.
I never had intention about going to
that beach because I didn't like the idea of being nude in front of
other people. Modesty was a rule at home, even with my mother or
sister, and with close friends at lockers or hotels in holidays I
always kept the towel wrapped around if I was getting out of the
shower or wear at least my panties.
But this summer, my first as married,
I went to spend some days to the apartment with my husband, who knew
about the existence of the beach reading touristic information and
proposed going to the beach. He never had been before at a nudist
beach and wanted to try it. I didn't want to go but finally accepted
by his insistance but leaving him very clear I was going to wear my
bikini.
When we arrived there wasn't many
people, most of them retired people, a few couples and some guys, but
we walked until we reached a zone away from the people. My husband
quickly took his swimsuit off and I left my bikini on. We were
suntanning and dipping and he insisted me again not to be a silly girl
telling me how wonderful it was staying undressed. Then, taking a look
around I noticed I was the only one who wore a two piece bikini. There
were other girl top-less but almost everyone was naked, so I felt a
bit ridiculous, and as we were a bit apart I decided to do it to make
him shut up his mouth, so I took off the top.
First I felt a bit awkward because
the situation, but a time after feeling the heat of the sun in my
breast I became more relaxed and ended forgetting I was there with my
tits exposed and even took a walk by the seaside. Later we went to
have our last bath of the day and when we weren inside the water he
tried to persuade me to take off the bottom of my suit to try how
delightful it was staying naked at the sea, he said no one was going
to see me since we were covered by the water, and it was late too and
there wasn't almost anyone at the beach. I was feeling so good and
curious about it that I took it off and tied around my wrist.
Wow, He was right, what a beautiful
sensation feeling the water on your body without the bikini. I felt in
Heaven so when we were getting out of the water I didn't put the
bottom on again. I couldn't believe it, neither my husband. I was
standing there, the prude girl in the middle of the beach full naked
not worrying about the people around looking at me. Off course I stood
naked enjoyng the sun, the warm air and the sand, and so I did the
next days. In fact I was waitng unpatient arriving to the beach to
take off the clothes.
Now I am a ethusiastic nudist,
thought I have some Young. I haven't the nerve to tell it at home and
if we go to the apartment when my family is there we go to the
clothing beach. My husband thinks it's absurd since I am an adult
person and I can do what I want. I'm sure he's right and I would like
telling my parents I practice nudism, but I don't dare. I'm sure they
wouldn't get angry with me, just would feel surprised but I can't tell
them.
I don't know if anyone is in the same
situation, I would appreciate your comments about it. Anyway I'd like
to encourage everyone to make the grade. It's a delight, try it.
Kisses from Spain.
Short Reading About Nudist Culture
Ten Tips for First Timers
1. For your first time, go to a naturist resort (ie: one which is set in wide, open natural surroundings) - possibly a campsite with caravan and cabin stay. The great thing about these is that they are relaxed, with plenty of privacy when required, and they generally have a central area with spas and seating where you can relax, socialise, and be among like-minded people. Spend a bit of money and go somewhere nice. This trip will set the tone of all your future nudist endeavours. You only have your first time once, so make it good!
2. Go somewhere at least a few hours drive from where you live. There are two reasons for this. (1) It lessens the chance of your seeing anyone you know - it's much easier to strip for the first time with only strangers around (trust me - any nudist will agree). Also, (2) it lets you feel that you are away from all the daily stresses and conventions of life. This should be a vacation, and a vacation is much more fun when you actually vacate your usual haunts. Also, you'll be more inclined to follow through if you make the whole experience into an adventure.
3. This one's for the nervous men out there. Guys, I know what you're thinking, and it involves the behaviour (or lack thereof) of your pee-pee. Let me reassure you…you will not spend your entire visit to a nudist/naturist resort with an erection. Believe me, you are no more likely to be erect after you've disrobed than you are walking around in your suit-and-tie. Granted, you may very occasionally become semi-erect (or even fully erect), but no more so (and probably less) than you would in fully clothed circumstances. So stop worrying about it. It simply will not be a problem. Any nudist will back me up on this one.
4. Take a "security blanket". Your "security blanket" is something non-obtrusive which you can discretely use to cover your genitals. You won't actually use it, but it'll make you feel a bit better during your first five minutes of nakedness. For my first time, I took a guitar, which I could kneel down over and play (thereby covering some key areas of my body) if required. Some other forms of a "security blanket"' could be a towel (not worn, but carried), a big satchel, a large cooler box, a deck chair, or a picnic blanket. I'm sure you can think of something.
5. Flirting/being flirted with can be uncomfortable or intimidating even when clothed. When you're naked, it can be even worse. As any experienced nudist will tell you, nudism has nothing to do with sex, and flirting with strangers is frowned upon. Feel free to be affectionate with your established partner, but please respect others' desire to be comfortable. If someone is flirting with you and you are feeling uncomfortable, do something about it, which makes it clear that his/her attentions are not welcome. If you feel like you are being harassed let the owners or staff know, and they will deal with the problem. This said, neither my partner nor I have ever encountered this. Apparently, it is more likely to happen on nudist beaches (which are free-to-access by all kinds of people, including gawkers - clothed individuals who like looking at nude people). That's why we only go to places which are somewhat out of the way (in terms of location), and where you have to pay to stay.
6. Pack at least two items of clothing: a comfy, button-up long-sleeved shirt (casual flannel is fine) and a pair of slops (or thongs, as they are sometimes called). I also usually take a jersey and a pair of sunglasses.
7. Two words: sun cream!
8. Two more words: insect repellent.
9. And two more. Bring book. Um, ok, maybe the concept needs a few more words to be fully articulated, so here goes. You are probably going to spend a fair amount of time sitting in the sun and reading. To do this, you will probably need reading material. I usually bring several books and magazines, but I am something of a readaholic.
10. Don't try to loose 3kg off your buttocks/wax your pubic region into a perfect "v"/madly exfoliate your buttocks just because you will be going naked in front of strangers. Believe it or not, nobody will care how you look (except for commenting on that interesting piercing), and you will find that body shape, size or texture will cease being important in your interaction with others. I'm sure a psychologist could explain this phenomonon, but I'm not a psychologist. All I know is that this is very true - being naked makes all of these issues…unimportant. You'll see.
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